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#61
I need to find a place to put this

"I [36F] don’t know how to tell my husband to be [34M] that I was in a couple adult films in college"

Okay.

"It was just on a two of those DVDs that are called like CoEds First Time vol 46 or whatever. I don’t even think I have the DVDs anymore. I didn’t even have a porn name. I just had a generic name like Amanda or something and it wasn’t even full on sex.

***My friend says I should just not tell him, she hasn’t told her husband and they’ve been together over 10 years.***"

Lol
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#62
I know a lot of guys in the manosphere hate on working girls because they get to make easy money just by virtue of being born with a vagina. Actually, the money isn't always that easy:

https://saafe.info/main/questions-and-an...n-the-bed/

https://saafe.info/main/questions-and-an...h-clients/

https://saafe.info/main/blather-and-babb...to-shower/

And yes, I know this isn't a P4P forum, but it isn't like the above threads are encouraging P4P. Anyway, if a civilian girl mentions P4P in an attempt to get you to open your wallet more, you can always point to above threads to explain why pros get paid, which is why I posted in the players lounge.
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#63
Girl who ghosted on me 4 months ago hits me up with a 'Hey'

Plan on keeping radio silence here. 

Sexy girl, but she's a mess so I'm gonna let this one go and rock with the girls who've stuck around and showed love.
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#64
^ Truly a HUGE MISTAKE in passing this up! Yeah she ghosted in you... but the work you put in months ago WAS working... she just had something else on her plate! Unless you're looking for a LTR, that's you're Ego getting in the way... especially is she's smoking Hot!
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#65
(08-01-2019, 05:35 PM)billydingdong Wrote: Girl who ghosted on me 4 months ago hits me up with a 'Hey'

Plan on keeping radio silence here. 

Sexy girl, but she's a mess so I'm gonna let this one go and rock with the girls who've stuck around and showed love.

Were you two actively fucking or did she play games? (you never met or she disappeared after one date)
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#66
(08-03-2019, 07:17 PM)p_1337 Wrote:
(08-01-2019, 05:35 PM)billydingdong Wrote: Girl who ghosted on me 4 months ago hits me up with a 'Hey'

Plan on keeping radio silence here. 

Sexy girl, but she's a mess so I'm gonna let this one go and rock with the girls who've stuck around and showed love.

Were you two actively fucking or did she play games? (you never met or she disappeared after one date)

No games, I imagine she just lost interest.

I got her back to my place on the second date but couldn't close because she said she was on her period. She invited me out with her and some of her friends another night, things went alright, and cut the night short after an hour and a half since there was no room for escalation.

Rookie move in meeting up with them as a group and not taking a raincheck to meet another day in private... I thought I had her but it's not a done deal until you seal the deal.

Messaged her the following Sunday to invite her out, pinged her later on, and no response.

This was all in March.

I had other girls at the time so I got a little careless. I didn't do anything fatal but it still falls on me for not handling it right. Could be a bullet dodged though because she admitted to panic attacks and depression. Now a few months removed I'd rather write her off.
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#67
This is my history:

Did PUA bullshit for about 4 years, even did a "weekend warrior workshop". EVERYBODY associated with PUA is a scam. No need to go into who taught me and other assorted myths. I'm/was the very definition of a shy/awkward guy, I never even went to high school prom. Got rejected from every frats in college.
If you know where to look however some of the manosphere types are legit. This however is tricky because if anyone knows anything about ADJ he's the very definition of a loser. All I can say is anybody that promotes getting laid and not entertaining would fit the criteria of "studying" under. I think the best advice I can give is find a smooth friend and hang with him.

Stopped doing PUA bullshit because I had to join the workforce. Very behind with my dating life and only now I'm turning things around. You only lose when you throw in the towel.

At this point I'm better off banging 10-20 foreign girls to get experience and then focus on doing FBs and eventually LTRs. I have a trip to Thailand coming up and will be posting some epic info.
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#68
Best way I can describe my behavior is giving girls mean mugs* and teasing them. I unlearned stupid retarded PUA "learn these openers" so I'm sticking to my way. Zero strings attached but if they're down they will give themselves away. I have so much going on in my life now I don't want drama and will not go on multiple dates (waste my time). It is movie at the motel or something along the lines of that. I still live with my family so I have no place to bring a girl back. Biggest purpose for me acting the way I do is to prep up for gaming overseas.

Best lead I have at the moment is this one girl I mean mugged at the grocery store yesterday. She gave me a nasty look in return (mirroring). Even when I type this I'm laughing, I really exaggerated my angry look. She's a bad bitch type, so will have to wrap it up. Wouldn't be surprised if she fucked some gangbangers.

Today I gave this hot chick at my gym a mean mug and when she looked at me again I covered my face. She didn't respond like other girls I'm trying to get into my pipeline and some old white knight concern troll fag asked me if I was alright. If I do bang her I'll report back, she's a bit "special." I already have a narrative for her if I wish to proceed. Best I can hope for is she tells her friends she met a guy that gave her an angry look and he covered his face...WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?????!!! DOES HE LIKE ME OMG!!! She probably wants me but I'm especially careful at the gym because I've heard stories of people getting called to the office for inane BS and I'm surprised it hasn't happened to me yet.

*When I mean mug girls wherever I go I get a variety of responses. Some are scared of me and if I want I could just compliment them. I especially want looking down and getting a nasty look in return. The gym girl I talked about probably wasn't expecting me to look at her angrily or to cover my face. She's probably used to men kissing her ass so I want to avoid that kind of label.
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#69
I have a fetish for tall girls. I'm only 5'11 but I really want to fuck like the volleyball types that are 6'4 or taller.

Im at the mall and walk by a woman who had to be 6'7 I could only think about how I wanted to fuck her and smack her around a bed. Maybe the kinkyness of it turns me on idk.

Anyone have tips or tricks on where to find them or how to game them?
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#70
(08-09-2019, 12:51 PM)Disco_Volante Wrote: I have a fetish for tall girls. I'm only 5'11 but I really want to fuck like the volleyball types that are  6'4 or taller.

Im at the mall and walk by a woman who had to be 6'7 I could only think about how I wanted to fuck her and smack her around a bed. Maybe the kinkyness of it turns me on idk.

Found Tormund's Swoop account.
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#71
Girls who refer to their boyfriend as their partner? Any patterns noticed?

Sat next to this girl on the train and was hitting it off with her. Flirtatious even though she mentioned her ‘partner’ a couple of times. Got the number so we’ll see where it goes.
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#72
Is it just me or are one night stands with girls you just met becoming more rare?

I feel like in the 90s to 2010 ish it was more common you had a legit chance at pulling tail if your game was right.

I think women have become way more hostile since then. I used to consistently get makeouts at least with a chance of escalating to sex. Now it seems women only talk to their own social group at bars/clubs.
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#73
I think I agree that ONS are more rare these days. In my experience 18-20 year old girls are the ones that are more likely to engage in it today. Weedheads as well ,as long as you bring some fire seems to be an easy hit as well.
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#74
Renewed my SA and LatinAmericanCupid accounts for my trip to Madrid, pipeline is full of girls. Now I'm filling my calendar with Airbnb Experiences tours. What have I become?
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#75
(08-15-2019, 01:14 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote: Renewed my SA and LatinAmericanCupid accounts for my trip to Madrid, pipeline is full of girls. Now I'm filling my calendar with Airbnb Experiences tours. What have I become?

I've never used that beta-male feature of Airbnb. Seems like a complete scam for women and their beta-males to think they are original. Half the listing are cooking classes you could get for free by watching the cooks at their restaurants. The rest are lame visits of the city to the same trip-advisor places every other pennyless loser goes to.
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#76
(08-11-2019, 01:53 AM)Daryush Neubache Wrote: I think I agree that  ONS are more rare these days. In my experience 18-20 year old girls are the ones that are more likely to engage in it today. Weedheads as well ,as long as you bring some fire seems to be an easy hit as well.

I tend to agree with this, but I also think you can get a 2nd night bang much easier than you used to, whereas in the 90s if it wasn't ONS she was gonna make you wait 3 date minimum.
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#77
Regarding time wasting chicks and first-dates-to-nowhere (been on a cold streak recently): my most successful strategy has always been escalating the interaction as far as possible on the first meet. This is also congruent and in line with my goal to achieve only sex (a casual, physical relationship) and sex as soon as possible (not wasting my time and setting the frame accordingly). Getting some female companionship used to be a part of this, but not so much anymore since I have a great main. Women seem to have a keen sense of one's energy/vibe- maybe they can detect they'll only be a side piece.

Lately, fast escalation seems to be backfiring (I think their player alarms are going off and/or they know I won't commit to anything, thus they don't want to put out and feel used)- consequently I've tried holding off on making a move (too early of a kiss/make out), and instead implementing some push-pull. Results have still been mixed, but mostly poor- as I feel it left the girls thinking I was afraid to make a move, not really interested or exhibiting incongruence. It all comes down to using your intuition to read her and calibrate accordingly which takes a lot of practice.

The only absolutes I consistently adhere to are remaining confident, fun and non-needy (before, during and after the meet). Apart from that, getting the bang or a second date at this point just feels like a crap shoot.
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