When to kiss her? The foolproof kiss test.

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You’re on a date and things are going well. But when to kiss a girl, what’s the perfect moment? How do you know she’s ready to be kissed? You’re not eating spaghetti in a back alley so there’s not going to be a lady and the tramp moment, but there’s a trick you can use: The kiss test.

I wrote this article a couple of years ago but it’s still very relevant today, so I want to bring it up to our new readers. The kiss test works like magic. I have used it hundreds (if not 1000) of times since and it’s golden.  You won’t always need to do this test, but for it’s a great tool to have in game toolbox for certain situations.

When to kiss a girl?

When to kiss a girl – The kiss test

You use the kiss test when you are one-on-one with a girl; either a date, or you’ve isolated her. It’s just you and her and you’ve had the opportunity and time to build attraction and comfort and you have progressed with kino. You should be very comfortable touching her, holding her hand, etc. Now it is time to escalate things sexually, and kiss her. But sometimes she’s insecure/shy and there is no “magic moment” that just screams out “KISS NOW”.

What I will do in that case, is to make a comment about her hair.

“I really like the way your hair looks” and I TOUCH their hair. “It feels so soft.” 

If a girl is comfortable with you running your fingers through her hair, she is ready to be kissed by you. I either go directly for the kiss right after or I’d say something like “Hmm, let me smell your perfume” and smell their neck (slowly) “Hmmmmm” and move to the kiss from there.


This test IS foolproof. But if she still pulls her head back after you try to kiss her, it’s important you remain completely unfazed by it. This is just an act. It happens occasionally. She does want to kiss you, but she’s just throwing another hurdle. You have two options.

1) You just smile. Talk some more with increased kino and try again a little bit later.

2) My preferred way, you alpha-kiss her. The pulling away is an act. You say “Hey hey hey!”, you grab her head with your two hands and force her to face you and you kiss her anyway. This will work because she is already attracted to you. Even if you just get a peck on the lips, it is progress. You make fun of her, e.g. “Worst first kiss ever: 3 out of 10”. Remain unfazed, keep cool and just try again later till she gives in.


You have to read the body language of women carefully before applying this alpha / caveman type game. If she’s attracted to you, forcing a kiss like this will even increase her attraction for you. Because you act on what she really wants.

You have to be congruent. If you’ve been acting beta/submissive/not leading; all throughout the date (probably you won’t arrive in this situation anyway), then suddenly switching to this kind of move will NOT work and could potentially backfire.


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