Why Southeast Asia is the Easiest Place to Get Laid in the World – Guest Post

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WhiteKnightRises is a guy I met in the Philippines. He’s legit and a cool guy. We still keep in touch. Today he’s written a guest article about why Southeast Asia is the easiest place to get laid in the world and how you can use this information to your advantage with girls and life. Enjoy.



Towards the end of 2015, I went to Thailand for the first time. I didn’t really know what to expect – I had only been to a few 3rd world countries before that (Cuba, Mexico, and Nicaragua) and it was going to be my first time in Southeast Asia. To be honest, the only real images of Thailand I had were Hangover 2 (I think I watched it right before going) and Zyzz dying in a Thai sauna.

When I got there, I couldn’t believe how I was received by the female population. I more or less felt like an instant celebrity. While I did know that it was supposed to be easy to get laid in Thailand, it was even easier than I had thought. I had random girls coming up to me, waitresses hitting on me, and so on (granted, I’m not ugly-looking and I’m also a light-skinned Asian – Korean – but those are topics for another time).

As an Asian who grew up in the United States (Asians generally don’t get much love in the US), the attention I got (and the bangs I got) were pretty mind-blowing to say the least. However, why is Southeast Asia the easiest place to get laid in the world?

Lack of Competition

One thing that really stuck out to me during my time in Thailand and other Southeast Asian countries like Indonesia, Philippines, and Vietnam was that there was really no competition from the local guys. Coming from the NYC area and even Korea, where I was living at the time when I took my first Thailand trip, it was interesting to see how no guys approached at the club in Thailand. Not to mention the fact that many “guys” were either gay or ladyboys.

Guys can attribute their success with the ladies in Southeast Asia to “game”*, but really, the lack of competition is what makes Southeast Asia the easiest place in the world to get laid. Unless you are gay, a ladyboy, or live in a shack, you will probably do much better with girls in Thailand and other Southeast Asian countries if you are coming from a country like the United States.

* I’ve heard of PUA/Manosphere bloggers that have written books on how to get laid in the Philippines. I’d be more surprised if someone was able to write a book on how to NOT get laid in the Philippines (pretty much impossible – you have serious issues if you can’t get laid in the Philippines or in Southeast Asia in general).

Even to this day, I get messages out of nowhere from girls I haven’t talked to in close to a year:

I really didn’t do anything special except have sex with this girl ~2-3 times.

Yes, I actually banged.

Another example – while this girl wasn’t super hot or anything, I can’t remember an instance where a random girl in the US sent me an unsolicited, half-naked picture.

I doubt that things like that would happen if I had more competition in countries like Thailand. Instead, a lot of girls will fuck foreign guys since there aren’t really a lot of guys to choose from in Southeast Asia.

Lots of Competition – The West, a Contrasting Example

The same way that it’s easy to get laid in Southeast Asia because there’s no competition, it’s harder to get laid in Western countries like the USA because there is a lot of competition. Of course, there are a myriad of other factors involved, but this is the main one.

In Southeast Asia, you are competing with gays and ladyboys (aka no competition). In a place like New York City, you are competing with models, frat stars, rich guys (finance, tech, CEOs, trust fund babies, etc.), famous promoters, famous DJs, and so on… and of course, guys who actually approach girls!

This competition is made even more fierce thanks to the fact that most people in the United States are fat or even obese.

In Southeast Asia, male competition is effectively eliminated because a lot of guys are gay or ladyboys, which makes it easier for you to have sex with girls. In the US, female supply (bangable girls) is effectively eliminated by the obesity epidemic, which, along with increased male competition for the few bangable girls that remain, makes it harder for you to have sex with girls unless you like fat girls.

One night after a music festival, I jumped on an Asian dating app because I wanted some easy pussy (Asian girls in the US that go for Asian guys love me – less Asian male competition since most Asians in America are “beta”). I started messaging girls and this girl, who wouldn’t get much attention in Asia (not attractive by most Asians’ standards), asked me how tall I was, which I thought was funny because she had “standards” as a below-average girl (not trying to be mean – you would honestly never see that in Asia). I attribute this to the dynamic we are talking about – increased male competition in the US as well as less bangable girls due to obesity, both of which contribute to a “buyer’s market” for females in America.

The girl

This is what below-average girls in other countries (more female supply since there isn’t obesity and less male competition because guys aren’t as thirsty or competitive in terms of looks, money, status, and so on) are like:

I was trying to practice my Spanish with people through a language exchange site and this girl invited me to stay with her, telling me that she wouldn’t charge me for my stay, that she lived alone, and that we could sleep in the same room (aka we could fuck).

If you’re one of those people that has never left the US and still don’t believe what I’m saying, set your Tinder to some place in Southeast Asia like Bangkok, Thailand; Manila, Philippines; or Jakarta, Indonesia and watch the matches and messages flood your inbox (assuming that you’re at least average in looks and your pictures aren’t terrible). Personally, when compared to using Tinder in the USA (with the same pics), I have messages out the ass when I’m swiping in Southeast Asia. In fact, I almost feel like a hot girl – it’s hard to keep up with messages and keep track of who’s who. If I wanted to respond to everyone who messaged me since my last logon, it would probably take me a good 15-20 minutes (or more) each time.

“Getting laid is like a job. You put in work and get paid in pussy. In
Southeast Asia, you get paid well; in the USA, it’s like working at McDonald’s”. –

Note: if you don’t want to pay for Tinder Plus to change your location, check out this trick to get Tinder for free (works on Android).

How to Use This Information to Your Advantage

Now that you know why Southeast Asia is the easiest place in the world to get laid (maybe it was already obvious) and why places like the United States (in comparison) are more difficult to get laid, here’s how to use that information to your advantage for banging girls and making money as well as connections.

For Girls

For girls, you can take advantage of the fact that it’s easy to get laid in Southeast Asia because of a lack of competition in many ways.

For example, if you are struggling with the ladies wherever you are, you can obviously take a trip to Southeast Asia and get a lot of pussy. I guarantee that doing so will be a much better use of your time and money than doing something like taking a PUA bootcamp (and probably not getting any pussy).

Other than the obvious benefit of getting a lot of pussy that you might not be used to getting, taking a trip to Southeast Asia (and getting laid as an inexperienced or struggling guy when it comes to girls) will spillover into your sex life back home.

20Nation said this when he and I were talking about this topic and I agree – there is a sort of confidence that you get when you’ve banged a lot of girls. This confidence will help you bang more girls and do other things in life as sex isn’t something you put on a pedestal anymore once you’ve had a decent amount of it and know that you can easily get some in the future (what PUAs might call “abundance mentality”).

In fact, my trip to Thailand in late 2015 set me up for a huge 2016 in terms of girls. Even though I probably went out once a week on average in 2016 and had no sex life during the week (lived far from the city where there were girls), I ended up banging 38 girls, which was a lot for someone who had only banged 8 girls or so before 2016.

Moreover, the Thailand trip and then having a big 2016 for girls let me focus on other things. While I obviously still like banging girls, it’s not my #1 priority anymore because I want to focus on things like making money now. I’ve said that to myself in the past but really focusing on other goals wasn’t possible until I got “banging girls” (or most of it) out of my system and knew that I had the potential to meet and bang girls easily (“game”).

Before going to Thailand, I used to think getting laid was some herculean task, but getting laid super easily made me realize otherwise. When you start getting laid in a place like Thailand, realize that it’s easy, and ACT like it’s easy (like you’re the man and get pussy on the regular), and then bring that same attitude back to wherever you came from – you’ll realize that getting pussy isn’t some huge ordeal and easier than you thought.

For Life and Making Money

Lack of competition in places like Southeast Asia also applies to other aspects of life that aren’t necessarily banging random chicks.

For example, a friend of mine, an Asian-American like myself, spent a few months in Latin America and due to the lack of competition where he was living, he stood out much more as an English-speaking, Asian guy who grew up in America (whereas people like that are a dime a dozen in the NYC area).

My friend isn’t a bullshitter – while you could do the things he did in Latin America in NYC, it would be a lot harder because you are competing with tons of people that are on your level or above.

Personally, when I was living in Korea, I had an easy job teaching English – the work, while not my ideal job, wasn’t demanding and afforded me a much better lifestyle than that of a recent graduate in America (minus finance and tech graduates). One day, someone I knew introduced me to someone who was looking for a Korean-American (or Korean who spoke English) to work on a special project. While there are a lot of Koreans who speak some English, there are very few that speak perfect English like yours truly and have experience in corporate America. Due to “lack of competition” (and maybe some good interviewing), I got offered a job that paid double what I was making as a teacher but ultimately turned it down knowing that Korean work culture is crazy and that I would have had no life.

As you can see, lack of competition in other parts of the world can not only get you more pussy, but also potentially make you more money and allow you to meet interesting people. In Korea, there are a lot of Korean-Americans who basically just bring over some idea from the US or wherever then get bought out by huge companies like Samsung for millions of dollars.

The same goes for India (a developing market with opportunities yet lower competition). Source


So while your favorite BS PUA guy might be based out of Southeast Asia (lots of guys like this in Bangkok and Manila) and bragging about his “game”, it’s really the lack of competition and not his “game” that makes it super easy to get laid there and sell you the dream (while you live in the West) of “improving your game” to get more pussy.

I hope I saved you the thousands of dollars you would’ve spent on bootcamps, eBooks, and seminars by telling you that lack of competition is the real reason why Southeast Asia is the easiest place in the world to get laid. The opposite – more competition (along with less bangable females) is what makes places like the US hard for guys to get laid.

You can use this information to your advantage by going to Southeast Asia and getting laid a lot, doing what I just said and riding the momentum and residual confidence when you get back home to get laid more, or setting yourself up for more promising business and life opportunities abroad.

Who knows, maybe in 10-15 years, as Asia continues to develop economically and Southeast Asian guys stop living in shacks and become tougher competition, guys will have to go to Africa or some other place to find their next “pussy paradise”. It’s very possible – older Korean-Americans have told me that Korea, a place that is probably known as the hardest place in Asia to get laid by most accounts, used to be super easy for him to get laid in because the competition was a joke back in the early 2000s. Nowadays, guys over there all take care of themselves, dress to the nines, and so on. That same phenomenon could happen in Southeast Asia – you never know. Enjoy it while it lasts.

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Until next time,


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