3 Things You Have to Do to Seduce a Girl Who Doesn’t Speak English
I have been in a place recently where very few people speak English. My Russian is getting decent, but I’m still at the level where I can’t really game because I’m too busy thinking how to construct a sentence. This has caused some problems with my sex life, but… it has now been fixed. I had to go back to my book on body language and to some old seductions around the world (when I didn’t speak any of their language), but I started using my 3 things you have to do to seduce a girl who doesn’t speak English.
1. Touching her
While trying to seduce a girl who doesn’t speak English, you are going to have to get creative. You can’t do any type of verbal communication, which is a huge handicap, but you can do something even more powerful… body language communication. This is much more powerful at creating attraction than words and can even make up for not being able to use any.
The first moments of the date begin, you touch her then pull her in close to kiss her cheek. As you walk, you lightly brush against her shoulder. As you sit on a bench you tease her and nudge her shoulder. Every… single… excuse… that you have to touch her… take it.
When two human beings make physical contact, the brain gets hormones that cause emotion. When a guy touches a girl, hormones explode and desire starts. It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking “Well this one girl I had sex with and I didn’t really touch her on the date, but it still worked so I don’t need to touch.” It’s wrong, sometimes Michael Jordan took bad shots and still won games. Or he played crappy teams and could have ass it… but he was Michael Jordan so instead of doing that he just always did it the right way and became the greatest basketball player of all time. Be like Mike.
2. Eye Contact
You look at her from across the room and your eyes meet. At this point, you better make sure not to be the one to look away first. If she holds your eye contact for a while, throw in #3. You have just spoken directly to her inner animal and have become more attractive than you were before holding eye contact.
As you speak and she asks you a question. You don’t have to answer the moment she finishes her sentence. Stare into her eyes for a second or two before answering. Basically, always make sure you are looking into her eyes more than feels natural, but less than a serial killer would (or who knows, with the tens of thousands of love letters serial killers get, it may not be a bad thing).
From what I have noticed, about 95% of men do not do this enough. For them it is uncomfortable. It’s true, staring into someones eyes is uncomfortable because of how many subconscious messages it sends. But… when you do it to a girl, these subconscious messages are that you are a high value man. This gets her panties more wet than almost anything you can do.
3. Cocky Smile
If you like to give one of those “say cheese” smiles, forget it. You instantly become less attractive to a girl when you use it. I know it goes against what we are taught growing up, but most of what we are taught is bullshit. When you smile, smile like you are a bad ass. It’s not even a smile as much as a smirk.
One of the funniest things to do when a girl says something not very smart is to not say anything. Just look at her with a cocky smirk. It’s powerful. After a few well placed cocky smiles I have had girls asking to have sex with me.
There are many types of attractive smiles and many types of unattractive ones. These are things worth looking into, check out this article to learn more about the different types of smiles.
Putting these 3 things together to seduce a girl who doesn’t speak English
There is a movie with Ryan Gosling called “Driver.” Girls rave about how sexy he is and he barely says five words the entire movie. All he does is stare and throw in couple smirks and smiles here and there. If a girl doesn’t speak English and you don’t speak her language you can’t depend on wit, so you have to depend on something even deeper. To seduce a girl who doesn’t speak English you must go beyond words: touch, eye contact and cocky smile.
I have been using this recently and girls have been changing how they act around me. I only just started dating again, I was spending all my time writing my book these last couple of months, but my results are way better than before I started writing my book simply because I’m doing it the right way. Don’t be lazy and do it the wrong way, learn from 20’s mistakes and do it the right way.
You spend the date touching, looking at her and smiling, throw in a few teases and leading her back to your place by her hand and you’ve just pulled off what many men thought impossible; tried and true.
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Update on my book on South East Asia
My rough draft is finally finished! It is 95,000 words long (about 55,000 more than I expected). From here I will be going through it and fixing some parts. Then, I will send it off to some guys to proof read it. After all that is done, I’ll hire a professional to go and fix all the errors and… it will be available the next day!